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Here’s me, warbling away in 1981. A song I wrote as a tribute to a friend.

Ain’t it Funny by Jim Hagarty

By Jim Hagarty

Gun nuts take a lot of abuse from people who think they are, in a word, ridiculous.

As a sometimes commenter, I have had some fun with the species myself. But what is a cynic supposed to do? Ignore the story about the man who shot his mother by accident during a church service (she lived)? Or the man who shot himself in the penis while driving down the road? Am I just supposed to let that go? Really?

But underneath all my mirth-making at the ammosexuals’ expense, I have to admit I have a certain admiration for the toughness of some of these gun-toting hombres. I grew up with a gun on the farm and used it many times. I must have a certain amount of respect lingering in the depths of my soul for the gun carriers of the world.

Some of these men and women are no shrinking violets.

Take the 37-year-old Florida man who only noticed he’d been shot while cleaning his revolver two days later when he changed from a black shirt to a brown one and discovered a blood stain from his wound.

Reuters has reported the bullet pierced Michael Blevins’ skin and muscle before exiting his body while he was cleaning the gun in his living room on Thursday.

The Deltona, Florida man loaded the gun while resting it on his chest so his dog wouldn’t jump on it, according to the Volusia County Sheriff’s Office.

Blevins told police he fell when his back gave out due to an old injury, struck his head on a table, and accidentally fired the weapon. Between the pain medication he takes for the injury and bumping his head, he was likely distracted from feeling the gunshot, the police report said

He was treated at a local hospital on Saturday, where staff reported the incident to law enforcement.

Maybe, however, this old adage applies in this case: No sense, no feeling.

Any time I have accidentally shot myself, I’ll tell you something. I knew it right away. I’m kind of wimpy that way.

Dang!

By Jim Hagarty

I have always been in awe of the extent of my good fortune.

While most people on Earth spend at least some part of their lives searching for the meaning of their existence, I have not had to do that and as long as I am a homeowner, I probably never will.

I know exactly why the Creator placed me on this planet. I have no doubt at all. I am here for one reason and one reason only: To clean up my garage.

That might not seem like a great reason to you, especially stacked up against the various destinies of greater people who’ve left this world a better place by virtue of their inventions, their art or their cures for incurable diseases. But after more than six decades of trying on various roles both professional and casual, I am always led back to what I know is my true calling – the tidying up of that 12-by-24-foot space designed to house my car but which, of course, never has. Instead, it has served as my family’s personal landfill site and from the start, I have been site supervisor.

Looking back, I guess I should have seen that my whole life was leading to this. As a kid, I spent many happy hours straightening up our basement, eventually graduating to our shed and finally, the garage. I’ve always been blessed by having been surrounded by people who feel that a good part of their life’s mission is to completely mess up the spaces that I am then self-assigned to rescue.

I can only imagine the emptiness of an existence spent in a home environment where everything is forever in its proper place. Where would be the challenge in that? Like mountain biking on the prairies.

Instead, nothing thrills me more than those times when the realization dawns on me that I will not be able to walk from the back door of my garage to the overhead door at the front without going outside and taking the sidewalk from one end of the building to the other. Navigating through the clutter on the inside might be possible, but from experience I know that the short journey cannot be made without falling down several times and risking impalement by various slender objects including hockey sticks, ski poles and garden rakes.

Now another person might institute rules for family members to follow to prevent such chaos or he might even establish a daily routine whereby a 10-minute clean-up would keep the space in good shape, but my experience has been that there is no fun in that.

I pity the poor soul who has never taken a scissors to a Saturday paper with a decluttering column in it or who has never surfed for decluttering tips till 3 a.m. like a sinner searching the Bible for Salvation or at least some loopholes.

Yes, few are the joys that can compare with seeing a garage floor emerge into the daylight which it has not seen in months and to the amazing discovery of objects that appeared to be lost forever.

What is most heartwarming of all is that, as the three-day clean-up nears its conclusion, the family members most responsible for the sorry state of affairs rediscover the space and re-occupy it, even as the supervisor sweeps away the last of the debris. And like shovelling the driveway during a snowstorm, it is strangely sweet to see the path filling back in almost instantly. The seeds of the next cleanup are sown so well in the one just being performed.

Looking back, I now know that the darkest period of my life were the three years I lived in a home I had bought which had no garage at all. So many wasted weekends I spent, broom and garbage can in hand with nothing to clean up. Defeated, I rented movies, read books and went for meaningless bike rides instead.

May I never experience such emptiness again.

He who knows not
And knows not
That he knows not
Is a fool.
Shun him.

He who knows not
And knows
That he knows not
Is a child.
Teach him.

He who knows
And knows not
That he knows
Is asleep.
Wake him.

He who knows
And knows
That he knows
Is a wise man.
Follow him.

• Anonymous

By Jim Hagarty

A writer in the U.S. recently released a book about how the creative class (artists, authors, singers, speakers, photographers, etc.) need to stop giving away their arts and crafts for nothing.

Stop working for free, was the gist of his effort.

My favourite news blog, The Huffington Post, called up the author’s agent and asked if he would write a review of his own book for the news aggregator.

“How much are you willing to pay my client?” asked the agent.

“Nothing,” came the reply from Huff Post, without a trace of irony.

So the author went and told his story of being offered nothing to a Huff Post competitor.

No word yet on what, if anything, the competing blog paid him for his story.

My guess is they matched the Huff Post offer, dollar for dollar.

The Huffington Post is estimated to be worth $1 billion.

By Jim Hagarty

Pigs have a bad name.

Not a bad reputation. A bad name.

How would you like to be called a pig your whole life?

There is something about the word itself that is demeaning. Pig. The namer of the pig must have been holding a grudge.

We need to substitute the name with something else.

How about swine?

On second thought, forget it. To be called a swine is almost worse than pig.

Sow? As in, “You sow!”

Nope.

Hog.

Never.

How did it happen that such a benign, clean (yes, they are clean, they only roll in muck to kill the bugs), curious, happy creature end up with such swinish names?

Has to be the grudge theory.

I have a long association with pigs. We raised them for a while on our farm. And I always kind of liked them. There was a perpetual friendly, hopeful look on their faces. And as kids, we got to ride the bigger ones. In the absence of horses, they were our steeds. They would put on quite a rodeo before they dumped us in the biggest pile of pig manure they could find.

To this day, not a fan of pig manure.

And while friendly, they could be annoying. One summer, on my break from university, I worked on a pig farm. Being chased around a pen by an angry sow is fun for about, no seconds.

But what sealed my own little grudge against these guys was the little tango we had when I was out on assignment as a newspaper reporter, sent (as punishment, no doubt) to do some sort of farm story. Always one to try to get the best, most realistic photos I could, I decided to climb the gate into a pig pen. Unfortunately, I dropped my camera case in the pen before I could get in there myself.

As it turned out, 10 half-grown pigs who were about to be paparrazied, had been waiting all their lives for a camera case to play with. Best toy, or maybe the only toy, they had ever had.

I wouldn’t say this was the low point of my journalism career, but chasing 10 lively pigs around a manurery pen, trying to retrieve their very first football from them, can tend to make a fella rethink some of his life choices. At least, later. At that moment, salvaging that increasingly dirty, smelly case was the priority.

I didn’t get my case back right away. Turns out, pigs are great at camera case soccer. And they had home pen advantage.

I don’t know what their fascination with my formerly classy camera case was, but they definitely hogged the ball that day.

I wonder, and this thought just occurred to me four decades later, if that camera case was made of pigskin.

Youch.

My bad, I guess.

I eventually won the day, got some sort of photo, interviewed the farmer and drove back to town, probably crying in my car all the way.

So you will understand if my fondness for a lot of things swinish took a major hit that day.

I mean, these guys were nothing but a bunch of pigs.

There, I said it.

By Jim Hagarty

Have you ever heard of someone buying a rhubarb plant?

I didn’t think so.

Rhubarb owners come by their rhubarb in only one of two ways. They ask someone to share a plant. Or they steal it.

I could have asked my neighbour to share his rhubarb with me. But what fun would that have been?

My neighbour was a young bachelor, renting the house directly behind me. He had a regular rhubarb farm in his backyard.

But this guy, young and interested in all the non-rhubarbian things in life, wouldn’t have known a rhubarb plant from a raspberry vine. Come to think of it, he wouldn’t have known a raspberry vine from a pack of gum. This is not to put him down. At his stage in life, rhubarb, or raspberries, for that matter, were not a priority. Gum, maybe.

I could have walked over to his place any day and asked him if I could uproot three of his many rhubarb plants and transplant them in my yard. He would have said yes. As nice a guy as you could find, he probably would have helped me dig them up.

But I decided on illegal confiscation as the better route. For absolutely no reason I can nail down.

So one day when my neighbour was at work, I wandered over to his place with wheelbarrow and shovel, criminal intentions uppermost in my mind. I carefully opened his gate, which squeaks, afraid to alert the householder who at that moment was many miles away with his job.

The gate co-operated, and I entered contraband territory. It was a beautiful sunny day, no wind, no clouds.

I started digging.

Just then, it seemed to cloud over. And the wind came up. But each time I stopped digging and looked around, the day was as nice as could be.

Back to work, excavating as silently as an earthworm.

Then the shutters on the upper part of the old brick house started banging. I stopped and looked up. The house has no shutters. Back to work. More banging shutters. Clouds. Wind whipping up.

Then a creepy feeling that someone was watching me from a window in the house. I quickly looked around. There was no one. Or was that curtain moving?

A police siren wailed. It was the rhubarb cops. I was afraid of that.

I glanced at the street in front of my neighbour’s house. A cruiser went streaking by. Maybe a bigger catch – a raspberry vine thief on the next block – was the one in trouble.

Stealth rhubarb digging is a terrible job. It takes forever to get those darned things out of the ground. Especially when it was necessary to space out the ones I took so that it would not appear anything was amiss. After a plant was removed, the big broad leaves on all the other plants had to be fluffed up to disguise their missing neighbour.

I don’t know if rhubarb plants have feelings, but suddenly, I felt like a kidnapper.

The job ended finally, amidst much terror at the clouds and the wind and the flapping shutters and the fear that my neighbour would come home unexpectedly.

I thought of all this tonight as I was in my backyard admiring our rhubarb plants. They are doing very well. My neighbour moved out of his house, none the wiser. Or grief-stricken at the loss of his rhubarb, who can tell?

Another thought occurred to me tonight.

I hate rhubarb. I always have.

By Jim Hagarty

When I was a teenager in university, I hung around with a guy who laughed at every second thing I said.

He thought I was hilarious. He even advised me that I should be a stand-up comedian. I knew that wasn’t going to happen as “stand up” was in the job title and standing up to make a living went against my every principle. I was then, and still am, all about sitting down. Subsequent summer job stints in factories where I stood up all day convinced me of the rightness of my position. Standing up for all 10 hours of a 10-hour shift became my notion of hell on earth.

I remember going to a party with my biggest fan one time when he introduced me to someone like this: “Hey, this is my friend Jim. He’s funny. Say something funny Jim.” I was suddenly the singing frog from that classic Looney Tunes cartoon who refused to sing for anyone but its owner. I had nothing funny to say.

Even then, I had a vague feeling that the concepts of comedian and clown were closely related. I had served my apprenticeship being a class clown. It didn’t always leave me with a good feeling.

But there was no denying I did have the ability to make people laugh. Over the years, I used that knack to ease my pathways through life. Sometimes it worked but other times it got in the way of my being taken seriously by people I thought I needed to impress.

Then one day, a cousin provided me with a key. He called me a storyteller. I liked that better than clown. But here is what I discovered. I can only tell a story when I have a story to tell. And lots of times I don’t have one. I am no good at making up stories, only recognizing them when they pass by. Just like I could not produce something funny when commanded to by my university pal, I cannot come up with a story when I don’t have one.

In that way, storytellers and songwriters are alike. We wait on the great Idea Muse in the sky to bless us with something. Some days he is generous; some days not.

People call me a good writer. I don’t think of myself as one. What I am good at is observing life and recognizing an irony when it drifts by.

So I live and watch and wait. Sometimes the Story Train is late in arriving or doesn’t show up at all. Concerned, I sit at the keyboad anyway and try to write something funny. But I am like a baker on those days, trying to make a cake when the flour can is empty. He has no choice but to wait till the store opens.

The fear of every songwriter is that the Muse has moved on to someone else. Sometimes, he has. Some days the best and only thing the songwriter can do is sit and wait. Same with the storyteller.

The clown, on the other hand, he just goes for it, Muse be damned.

By Jim Hagarty

Late last night I received a message from a life coach, offering me the benefits of her services.

I replied that I already have a life coach. His name, and this is pure coincidence, is Jim Hagarty.

I did not say the coach I already use is a very good one. At times, in fact, I have thought of suing him for malpractice. However, we’ve been working together on my life for a while now and I find it hard to break up with the old bugger.

Hagarty steers me in the wrong direction, on average, about three times a day. He’s often grouchy and on occasion has stopped speaking to me for hours on end. When things get tense, about the only useful suggestion he ever seems to offer is to go get myself another coffee and pick himself up one while I am at it.

When I have questions, half the time he has no answers for me. When I could use some encouragement from him, more often than not, he offers me none. When I could use a shoulder to cry on, he’s usually missing in action. When I go to him looking for a bit of wisdom to get me through a predicament, he tries to buy me off by telling me a joke instead.

In fact, the more I think about him, the more useless he seems to me to be as a life coach and probably as any other kind of coach unless a person needs coaching on how to go for coffee. And yet, he has stuck with me through thick and thin and we have a history together that goes way, way back. He has promised, in fact, to stick with me till the end.

He may not be great, but at least he’s there for me. Twenty four hours a day. Oh, and he always promises to send me a bill. But he never does. He has cost me a lot buying him coffee though.

Maybe he needs a life coach of his own to help break him of the habit.

By Jim Hagarty

I know a man. You might know him too.

His name is Yuno Wattcha Shudoo.

If you see him, avoid all contact. He is obnoxious, ignorant and potentially dangerous. His self-importance will smother your self-esteem.

But if you encounter Yurohn Hart in your travels, take her for a coffee.

She’s the one with the answers.